I have a unique perspective as I work every day. I am in finance and my branch is in a grocery store. I have the opportunity to watch people all day. I get to observe their interactions with each other, with other employees as well as with customers. I am also observant of their way of dress and mannerisms. There is the cutest older gentleman that works for the grocery store. He wears a white dress shirt, black tie and black slacks. he is so kind and helpful. He is always willing to jump in and help where he is needed.so many of the customers have commented on how sweet he is and nicely he is dressed.
As I have worked in many different fields, I have come to know that the way you dress is a direct reflection of how you act towards others and how others act towards you. And, it's not a matter of modest vs immodest.
At one of my previous jobs, I was a hall monitor for a Jr. High (and boy, do I have some stories). I remember one student in particular. Halfway through her 7th grade year, she started spending time with some students that was a little lax in their education. They didn't put forth any effort in doing their assignments, handing in their homework and some days they spent their time a park down the street. Her mom realized that in order to "save" her daughter she would need to take drastic measures. So, she took her daughter out of school to home school her.
Fast forward one year, this cute student was walking through the halls, eating lunch and interacting with her friends, but there was something different about her. She seemed happier. She was attending all her classes. She was even doing her assignments. The biggest difference: she wore a dress every. single. day! And, her mom had required that she did so! At first she was embarrassed that her mom did this. But, as the year progressed, she did also. She blossomed into someone so completely different than her former self. She saw herself in a different light. I could see her gain confidence, which helped her gain trust and respect from her peers. She would also compliment me every day: my hair, shoes, clothes etc.
Around that same time, I was working more with my good friend who owns an online women's clothing company whose motto is:
Look, Feel, Do Good. Her philosophy is simple: when you look good, it makes you feel good so that you can turn around and do good. I have felt this in my own life personally. So, thank you Courtney for helping me build a foundation on which I can build my self worth on. And, if you want to hear more of my thoughts about this, head on over to my
self care post.
***This post is not sponsored nor was I compensated in any way. It's just the thoughts rolling around my head while I observe others within my environment.
